So with having to go to court with my daughters father for custody of my daughter, we have to go to mediation. It is to see if we can settle our disagreements outside of court. I have to ask myself if it truely works? I have never been to mediation but I've heard it can go either way. I am hopeful that it works out the best way possible for Hannah. But I'm at my witts end, to the point where I am writing up a proposal and am going to stick to it.
He can either agree to my terms or off to court we go. I know I shouldn't think that but I am tired of trying to make things work and getting no where. I'm sure every one feels that way at some time and point in their life but I'm no longer taking no for an answer.
I've always been the person to bend over back wards for every one else. And all it got me was walked all over. People like to use and abuse others so easliy and freely that it is sickening. I epsecially empower woman to stop being used and abused by others. I have been there done that and I know its not easy to change or leave. HaHa this went way off what I was trying to ask, but I guess only time will tell if mediation works. I supose it has to work some of the time for the court to make it manditory before going in front of a judge. Although I think Hannahs dad will be less likely to tell me what i want to hear and not follow through. Again time will tell...
Good luck to you and Hannah. I think mediation only works in some situations though. In less serious situations than yours, but you never know maybe it will.
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